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\n\t\tWisdom of Fairy Tales\n\t<\/h2>\n\t

BECOME ENCHANTED WITH LIFE AGAIN<\/p>\n\tA Self-Study Online Course
\nto Reignite the Magic in Your Life\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tOh Yes! Re-Enchant Me!\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n

\n\t\tLet’s face it…you probably wouldn’t be here exploring this journey unless your soul was seeking a bit of re-enchantment with life.\n\t<\/h2>\n\t

Fairy tales, mythology and folklore have enchanted and enlivened human beings since the beginning of time, challenging, mystifying and awakening us (even if we don’t know how or why).<\/p>\n

In today’s patriarchal dominance culture, far too many of us are moving through life in an almost numbed state<\/strong> as we try to keep up with all the “shoulds,” manage all the things, and maintain the act of not showing our self-doubt and angst with the way things are.<\/p>\n

You might even be experiencing a long, slow burn of dissatisfaction<\/strong> that you fear may never end.<\/p>\n\t

The enchantment has been lost.<\/p>\n\t

Even if we’re feeling on-purpose in our lives, we find ourselves wondering why it seems so challenging to find space for ourselves<\/strong> and have greater ease in bringing our gifts.<\/p>\n

\n\t\tOur Disenchantment with Life Is Not Our Fault\n\t<\/h2>\n\t

The cultural conditioning is difficult to rise above or escape when there’s a constant striving for “more, bigger, better, faster.”<\/p>\n

How can any of us easily rise above that noise?<\/strong><\/p>\n

We try to escape or replenish through retreats, meditation, or substances, only to find those moments of peace quite difficult to access when we again are drowning in the sea of overwhelm and self-doubt.<\/p>\n

We succumb to the “I don’t have time” voice that tells us such efforts toward a new way of approaching things are frivolous.<\/p>\n

We’re uncomfortable with the unfamiliar, preferring the quick-fix or magic pill, rather than the unknown realm of ‘something different.’<\/p>\n

The thing is, “something different” just might be exactly what the Soul is longing for.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\"Star\n

\n\t\tWe need a new lens through which to see the world that helps us to sustainably align with our Soul’s true path, and reanimate a sense of purpose. \n\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tYes! Sign Me Up!\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\"Laughing\n

\n\t\tBelieve it or not, what reconnected me to my true path was Fairy Tales & Folklore.\n\t<\/h2>\n\t

Through these old tales (and I’m talking about the old<\/em> tales, not the Disneyfied versions from my childhood, which were pure toxicity), my life began to feel re-enchanted<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

I was deeply Soul-sick, and this new perspective was giving my Soul a voice<\/strong> that it never had before.<\/p>\n

As I immersed myself in these stories, I discovered so much hidden and well-preserved magic in them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As the archetypal, metaphorical connections to the many characters, places and experiences came alive within me<\/strong>, my life started to make sense and to change.<\/p>\n

I could see myself<\/strong> in the striving of the hero or heroine of these stories. I could see my trials in their trials. I could see my shadow side in the villains of the tales.<\/p>\n

I started to see that nothing would shift for me unless I could stand up for and take care of myself<\/strong>, fully owning my own crap and honoring that my life was my responsibility.<\/p>\n\t

I realized that only I <\/em>could be the leading character in the story of my<\/em> life.<\/p>\n\t

As I learned to see and experience life through archetypes, metaphors, symbols, dreams and stories, I began to experience the language of the Soul<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Soon I began to see everything as an archetype or metaphor for life…Nature, characters, movies, stories and more. I even began to see the bible in this way, which helped me to see all wisdom traditions through a completely different lens, and catapult my healing as a “recovering Christian.”<\/p>\n

I discovered the ways in which the language of the Soul can be given a voice, re-enchanted, which actually means that it’s able to sing again!<\/p>\n

It’s all there, sleeping beneath the surface, longing to be awakened, acknowledged and listened to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The deep forest is indeed a beautiful place to see our own reflection, and find our way to the light of our True Being.<\/p>\n

This experience has guided me to support other women to break free from the spell of entrapment in their life, and move toward a true sense of freedom and fulfillment.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\n\t\tThe Myths About Fairy Tales\n\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\tAren’t fairy tales chauvinistic or misogynistic?\n\t\t\t\t

\"\"Genders are often literalized and thus become the least understood archetypes in fairy tales. While characters and archetypes might have feminine or masculine qualities, they are speaking to these qualities within us, not to men or women specifically.<\/p>\n

More often, the references are for the Soul and Spirit, and the alchemical union that happens between them as we consciously navigate the Soul’s journey. A Princess described as being trapped, asleep or in danger is not a “damsel in distress,” but rather an archetype for the Soul, longing to connect with Spirit (the Prince).<\/p>\n

We’ll be diving into the masculine and feminine qualities of the tales and how they live in us in healthy and unhealthy ways.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tIsn’t it dangerous to connect with such unrealistic “fairy tale” outcomes?\n\t\t\t\t

Many think of the “happily ever after” outcome in many fairy tales as being unrealistic or encouraging false hope. If taken literally, as if the tale represents a specific outcome in life, this is understandable.<\/p>\n

However, the tales are metaphorical for the overall journey of the Soul to unite with Spirit. In reality, this may take many lifetimes, and is no small task. The “happy ending” offers us genuine hope and a picture of what’s possible<\/strong> when we’re willing to venture out into the world with courage, make mistakes, try again, and continue our striving.<\/p>\n

In this course, we will explore the ways we don’t have realistic expectations, and the ways we idealize things. We’ll also consider the ways we’re overly pessimistic and struggling to find trust in the world.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tAren’t fairytales for children? And besides, I’ve read some original tales and well, they’re kinda crazy. Can I really learn something useful?\n\t\t\t\t

This question and concern comes again from literalizing the scenes in the tales.<\/p>\n

When the stepsisters in Cinderella are cutting off parts of their feet to fit into the glass slipper, this can be seen as an expression of how we all too often are “cutting off” parts of ourselves to fit in, please others, or follow the “shoulds” we live by.<\/p>\n

We’ll learn to re-interpret<\/strong> these “gory” scenes in the fairy tales as elements of our own shadow and what we tend to ignore or turn away from out of discomfort.<\/p>\n

Allowing fairy tales to awaken the wisdom of our Soul allows us to live more aligned with who we’re here to be<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

There are so few tools available to us that serve to communicate the language of the Soul and help us to see the world in new ways<\/strong>, with new possibilities. <\/p>\n

While the tales are wonderful to read to children, by reading them as adults, we’re able to heal the soul-sickness that’s plagued us<\/strong> in our years of growing up and living in a patriarchal dominance culture.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tAre fairy tales even a good idea to read to children anymore?\n\t\t\t\t

\"\"Children naturally live more connected to Soul and Spirit. They don’t literalize the fairy tales in the same way adults do.<\/p>\n

As adults, we do have to reconsider our interpretation, but children “get it” from the start. They don’t see things as gory, particularly if they’ve not been exposed to media in their earliest years.<\/p>\n

They experience the unfoldings as “right or wrong” and live into them in this way, grounding their moral compass and encouraging their own exploration of the world with trust.<\/p>\n

I believe fairy tales are critical to support children to develop in ways that serve the world more creatively, compassionately, and courageously.<\/p>\n

When we as adults can read to our children through this new lens of understanding, our children will feel the benefits all the more.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\"Snow-White-Oval-92sm\"\n

\n\t\tThis journey will be empowering for you if…\n\t<\/h2>\n\t